I’ve been trying to be very low key and calm for the past few weeks. Four weeks ago today, I reached the seven month marker. The next day I went up to London for a hair do, bit of a shop and general time out from the builders from hell. All was going well until I’d ignored my tummy ache for slightly too long and thought I’d better pop into A&E just to be on the safe side. Four hours later, it’s 2am, and I’m strapped to every possible monitor in the Maternity Ward… it turns out it wasn’t something I ate for lunch, I was having full on, regular contractions. Not ideal at only 28 weeks. So for the past month I’ve been making a real effort to rest as much as possible.
We’ve made the decision to have the baby in the John Radcliffe in Oxford, rather than come back to the Chelsea Westminster. I’ve also been told that it’s going to be much safer for both the bub and I to have a planned Cesarean. I was desperate to have this one naturally but would obviously rather be safer than sorry. I’m just hoping that this time as its planned it’ll a bit less traumatic. I’m trying to think of the positives though and yesterday even bought my first pack of new born nappies…
I’ve been thinking about what to pack in my hospital bag and have been trying to remember what I did and didn’t use and want last time. There are so many lists on pregnancy websites that offer advice about what to pack but for me there were some things that I would have been lost without and thought I would share them with you.
7 pairs of big black cotton knickers. Mothercare maternity ones were my best. I bought two sizes too big and they were perfect. Don’t get anything swanky as you’ll probably never want to see them again and throw them in the bin afterwards.
A front opening nightie. If you’re going to be in for a while take at least three if you can. Zara home have some beautiful Liberty Lawn ones.
An Evian water spray. For cooling as much as drinking.
Snacks. Lots of them and preferably chocolaty based.
Phone charger.
Your own pillow and duvet.
Dry shampoo.
The strongest Arnica you can find. If you can, start taking this at least a month before your due date.
A laptop with some pre-loaded very easy to watch films on.
Cameras and chargers
At least 4 baby outfits. Socks, a hat, warm blankets. When the Cub was born, we hadn’t given this enough thought and only bought one very summery outfit with us, much to the amusement of the Midwives.
A baby car seat. They won’t let you home without one.
Very loose fitting clothes for you when you leave hospital. Sorry be the bearer of bad news but you’re not going to be fitting into your old jeans quite yet.
Kamillosan Chamomile ointment. Miracle two in one nipple cream that works just as well on nappy rash too.
New born nappies. Pampers get my vote.
Cashmere socks.
Muslin squares. I had boring white ones first time round, this time I’m desperate for a pretty Aden & Anais one covered in stars.
Lip balm and moisturiser. My skin was drier than the dessert for some reason.

This week is my last working one before I’m putting myself on Maternity leave. We are shooting the last part of my book and as much as I love it, I will be so relieved to have it all over and done with without the baby having made an early appearance. First stop on my maternity leave is to check myself into the Haybarn at Daylesford for some much, much needed R and R. I then feel I’ll be ready to start thinking about Christmas. And build the new baby’s cot….